Banks' style of play these days is very active. Lots of chasing, flipping upside down, hide-and-seek. He starts one thing, plays with it for 10 minutes or less and then moves on to the next thing. He plays very loudly and he's bossy. "No, mommy, drive the trains ober he-ah", "no, mommy, run", or "mommy, get up!" If I am doing ANYTHING in the kitchen, he drags our little step ladder in there and wants to help. I even tried to get him to sit still and watch TV the other day and he wouldn't do it. What??? Needless to say, I'm exhausted from playing with my child! I am super thankful that he's active, healthy and wants to run and play all the time, but whew! I'm worn out at the end of the day.
I'm also worn out from trying to discipline him. He is pushing EVERY boundary, EVERY limit and even breaking some rules willingly and accepting his punishment without a second thought. As an example, Banks has learned to lock/unlock our front door. We have sent him to time out or spanked when he does this since, you know, there's a certain level of danger there. Well, yesterday I was putting some things in the car and came back to open the door and he had locked me out of the house! Little stinker. There are some days when I feel like he can do nothing right; I am on him ALL DAY LONG. "Banks, don't put your feet on the table." "Banks, don't feed the dog your grapes." "Don't throw." "Hurry up." "Don't lock me out of the house." "No, no, no!" And, there are some days when I can't do anything right. "NO, mommy, I was going to do that" is what I hear when I try to put his shoes on, help him into the car, carry him up the stairs, and on and on and on I can go.
We all know that doing the right thing is usually the more difficult choice. Disciplining, or molding your child into making the right choices, is definitely difficult. There are some days when I just want to close my eyes and pretend that I don't see him hit the dog or spit his food out or unroll the toilet paper but I heave myself up and discipline even though it's not easy.
Banks is not a "bad" child; very far from it. He's caring, comes up and hugs my legs all the time and tells me "I lub you, mom", and very smart. He's energetic, creative and thoughtful in his play. He's observant and insightful (as insightful as a two year old can get). He is the love of my life and I can't imagine loving anything more and at the same time I can't imagine being this exhausted and having someone else for which to care.
Speaking of that someone else, he finally has a name! We're going to name him Andrew Phillips and call him Andrew. Andrew is from Matt's side and I couldn't tell you how they are related. All I know is it's on the family tree so that counts! Phillips is my maternal grandmother's maiden name. My pregnancy is flying by and I'll be in the third trimester before I know it. My belly button is trying to turn itself inside-out. I've never run more than three miles in my life but I'd imagine my belly button feels like that of a marathon runner. It is so sore and sensitive. My shirt rubs it all day everyday and it certainly doesn't help that a little two year old punches, rubs, pushes, etc on my belly everyday.
Enough of belly button grossness. Here's a picture of my little Indian from his MMO Thanksgiving feast. He made sure to skip the green beans and corn and opted for two cookies and two juice boxes. Lunch of champions.